Key to success
Hello friends this is Meer Ishfaq and i am back with my new blog and today i am going to talk about a totally different topic and yeah it will help the people to understand the reasons behind success and faliur.
We are social beings and we live in a particular society and the way of living is different from region to refion and from country to country but Allah has made the mankind with one common thing and that are our emotions , we all have emotions and thats why we humans are known as emotional beings and that character differentiates us from animals. So friends in today's modern world we can see there is a mess of competition or we can say cut throat competition and if someone fails to stand in that competition he is rejected by the society in all respects neither he is been eligible for social responsibilities nor for his individual responsibilities , in a nut shell he is of no use.
Friends competition is good it boosts the enthusiasm among individuals but if there is a hell of mental torture or pressure upon students by parents or by the teachers that torture is not good for a healthy groth of children.
As we all know children are pressurized to gain 100% of marks and obviously children thought of only gaining marks they could not be able to chase there dreams or there passion.
My request to all the teacher and parents not to pressurize your students and children respectively, observe what they are good at what is the special character in them which they could lead to benifit society. Let me tell you some examples.
why our society is not developing as compared to the societies of other developed nations, the reason is that we do not train people as per there choices we train people by force and the one who is been trained could not give his best in that way and it will lead to the disequilibrium in Society.
suppose some individual likes photography but parents are forcing him to be a doctor tell me honestly how could he be a doctor and yeah if he by chance became a doctor, he would never be a great doctor and society will suffer, and this all leads to the unhappiness in our lives.
Everyone is unhappy in his life and the reason is these things happening around us , i request the parents to be friendly to there children and identify there passion and support them this will lead to the happy life let me give another example did you ever have noticed that your dad or mom is always angry when they come home from there offices or jobs the reason is the same they are not satisfied with there jobs but they have to do because they have to survive and take an example of that person who is master in his work he enjoys his work he would never get tired and will never be angry or tired when comming back to home.
One of the reason why in government jobs employees get retired at some particular age level the reason is he gets too much tired that he could not take that responsibility for longer as compared to the people who are freelancers or doing there passionate work would never quit until they die eg Actors do acting till death because they love there work.
so guys it was all about the connection between success and happiness let me tell you some tips to keep yourself happy always.
1. Always pray to Allah to God weather you belong to any religion you must pray to the creator it will definetly make your feel happy inside. An individual needs two types of meals one for himself and another for his soul and the meal for the soul is to pray to the creator always remember the creator.
2. Help others as much as you can or in other words i can say be a helping hand. Do good and have good or as you sow so shall you reap. Always remember this and help others.
3. Spend quality time with your family , it is sad that we are ready to spend time with girlfriends, friends but we are not ready to give time to our family if you spend time with your family is will create a bond and you will definetly be happy always.
friends it is enough for today hope you will enjoy reading and comment your thoughts and for queries drop a mail on meerishu3@gmail.com
Thank you.
We are social beings and we live in a particular society and the way of living is different from region to refion and from country to country but Allah has made the mankind with one common thing and that are our emotions , we all have emotions and thats why we humans are known as emotional beings and that character differentiates us from animals. So friends in today's modern world we can see there is a mess of competition or we can say cut throat competition and if someone fails to stand in that competition he is rejected by the society in all respects neither he is been eligible for social responsibilities nor for his individual responsibilities , in a nut shell he is of no use.
Friends competition is good it boosts the enthusiasm among individuals but if there is a hell of mental torture or pressure upon students by parents or by the teachers that torture is not good for a healthy groth of children.
As we all know children are pressurized to gain 100% of marks and obviously children thought of only gaining marks they could not be able to chase there dreams or there passion.
My request to all the teacher and parents not to pressurize your students and children respectively, observe what they are good at what is the special character in them which they could lead to benifit society. Let me tell you some examples.
why our society is not developing as compared to the societies of other developed nations, the reason is that we do not train people as per there choices we train people by force and the one who is been trained could not give his best in that way and it will lead to the disequilibrium in Society.
suppose some individual likes photography but parents are forcing him to be a doctor tell me honestly how could he be a doctor and yeah if he by chance became a doctor, he would never be a great doctor and society will suffer, and this all leads to the unhappiness in our lives.
Everyone is unhappy in his life and the reason is these things happening around us , i request the parents to be friendly to there children and identify there passion and support them this will lead to the happy life let me give another example did you ever have noticed that your dad or mom is always angry when they come home from there offices or jobs the reason is the same they are not satisfied with there jobs but they have to do because they have to survive and take an example of that person who is master in his work he enjoys his work he would never get tired and will never be angry or tired when comming back to home.
One of the reason why in government jobs employees get retired at some particular age level the reason is he gets too much tired that he could not take that responsibility for longer as compared to the people who are freelancers or doing there passionate work would never quit until they die eg Actors do acting till death because they love there work.
so guys it was all about the connection between success and happiness let me tell you some tips to keep yourself happy always.
1. Always pray to Allah to God weather you belong to any religion you must pray to the creator it will definetly make your feel happy inside. An individual needs two types of meals one for himself and another for his soul and the meal for the soul is to pray to the creator always remember the creator.
2. Help others as much as you can or in other words i can say be a helping hand. Do good and have good or as you sow so shall you reap. Always remember this and help others.
3. Spend quality time with your family , it is sad that we are ready to spend time with girlfriends, friends but we are not ready to give time to our family if you spend time with your family is will create a bond and you will definetly be happy always.
friends it is enough for today hope you will enjoy reading and comment your thoughts and for queries drop a mail on meerishu3@gmail.com
Thank you.
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